Originally Posted by HiHood
The cream of the crop, have come through and picked us "good men" early, very few "good women" out there anymore either, all us "good men" went and got em. There's your explanation. When those who think they're good realize they ain't, they get MEAN.
t'ain't for you to ponder, nor me either, stop the nit picking search and live, I mean LIVE LIFE, get out and about and enjoy whatever it is you enjoy. perhaps he'll be there for you, if not, who cares, you had fun.
um--there are quite a few 'good women'--'you'--men won't find us in the typical places. we are 'private dancers'. fyi.
nah-==the great ones don't get mean--just find better men. cut their losses--learn and go on. there is crying, there is rage--managed discreetly-i assume you know about 'SATC'--you call the girls and counsel each other and hug each other and do whatever you can to ease the PAIN.
n e v e r was a 'nit picker'--sweet as sugar--too sweet---too nice. didn't even want breakfast at Tiffany's. didn't ask anybody to help me either---nor expect thanks or 'anything'. must be the best woman in the world?
sigh--but you are essentially correct. lol--i am doing what you advised--always have done that.
for me to 'want more' than friendship from any man--it takes someone like Kenny Rogers and a host of others. some 'just know' and some can never grasp the simplest idea--will never know 'what women want'----lol that anyone thought Mel Gibson was a man who knew anything about women and most of the other things he professes to believe.
the Truth is out----cat's out of the bag about men--no turning back.
Barack is good--i would have a man like him.
say what you want to say about him. Clinton--wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole--the only thing i have against Hillary is she married Bill. ????
really--i prefer my doctor. sigh--maybe the best man in the world--his friend, a minister is just like him.
i will see him in November and just ask him if he can match me up. would save him lots of time and effort. he might do it. i drive him insane--from doing what he wants and still not finding the solutions. 10 years of this.
that is the only cure for me. not really his job--but he is busy--Executive Health--taking a few day of vacation now--had to have him paged to be informed of my urgent need---he called right back when they gave him the message.
'Walk, manage the stress-go to diabetes classes'. which i would have done except his other patient, Mom, went insane when i tried to do all that in June.
he can do nothing with her--90--and so he has to keep hearing the same story--waste of his time.
other than that---i might be likely to meet my soul mate pulled over in a truckstop in the middle of the night. or in a cheap motel. it is a great life---lol.
a fine potential Lifetime movie. grow up 5 minutes from Emory University and live like those in homeless shelters. Go Atlanta, GA---what a crazy city.
google the biblical character 'Susannah'--mmmhmmm--not in the Bible but i don't doubt the truth of the story. songs have been written--'Suzanne' and others --plays have been performed.
'Susan'--the lily--perfectly pure---profoundly abused --spiritual abuse. worst kind--no man would admit to the evil that he had done. one stood up.
i have 5 good men now. i will see what my pastoral counselor suggests--he is like Bob Dylan and the Archbishop of Canterbury--he can probably find the man i need. of course he will not do that--insists i do such things for myself.
knows i can. just the wind beneath my wings. that is all he is.
GOD. He is real and he will use a 'good servant' in his mysterious ways. I am like lucy//Peanuts--big mouth--Jeremiah--He can count on me to tell the entire world and do it incredibly well. so strange so strange.
all i wanted was to be 'average' He had a different idea--this is now clear to me. lol
i have a dog who loves me unconditionally. DOG=GOD. Josh Dylan.
Josh Groban and Bob Dylan--all you need to know about GOD.