Originally Posted by addymiller
once i was 'nicer'--but tonight i just gotta say this--
i don't like fat men
there is a good reason.
i would date a smoker before i would date an overweight man. i would date a lot of other 'less than perfect men'---but um-i just don't think i could like more intimate aspects of a relationship with a man who is too big in the middle.(1)
that tells me that the man is self-indulgent(2)---thinks well of himself with little cause. will do what he pleases and not be very concerned with what others may want or need. many times they have a lot of money--that is not what impresses me. shrug--
I comprehend you getting a wee bit evil regarding Men, however all relationships require work ON BOTH SIDES and not always is the case in separation due specifically to one person.
It takes a minimum of 2 to make a decent relationship and brooding over what one HAD isn't a positive way to future relationships as ones negativity is glaringly apparent and usually a turn off.
(1)I like your sentence construction which can be construed 2 ways.
(2)Not all fat men are self indulgent as some are fat or oversized due to Medical reasons 1 of which is pituitary gland dysfunction.
Some fat or oversized men are also not dumb by any means and while some may be financially comfortable, some are not, like with everyone else.
There are fat or oversized Women as well and not all such Women are self indulgent or careless towards other Humans.
Some want to be BIG while some are simply LAZY and some just don't care how they appear yet sometimes land good relationships.
I'm Male and been in a Loving relationship with a Lady since latter '96 and we knew of/learning about each other for 3 years before we hooked up.
It is what it is.