what is the best way to have open talk with your partner?

[juliana]

both my man and i have secrets. i figured his out, he probably figured mine out too. his secrets are his business, if he wants to share, that's up to him, i'm not going to force it. the big difference is how YOU react to them. i chose to accept them, but you may want to walk away - it's up to you.

[Dceeeee]

Heh....my BF and I discussed everything. It was one of the things I really liked about him, and felt we were like best friends. Recently though, I found out he was cheating on me, and most of what he was telling me were lies. I'd rather have a quiet honest man, if those are my only 2 options.