Why am i still married to you??!!!

[Francap]

What do u do with a man who claims to love you, but all his actions say otherwise....He won't leave u or let u leave either!!!!!!

[ZonaJeep]

[RiponredTJ]

Calling him a man may be pushing the limits if what you say is true.
What is stopping you from leaving him?

[Otahyoni]

I didn't know you were married to me!.........wait......what?



On a more serious note, I agree with the above 2 posts.


Signed,
The resident smartass

[havasu]

Please don't leave us hanging with that initial statement. Please explain more, such as how long have you been together, ages, kids, etc.

[neophyte]

Francap: Ma'am, pack your bags, pack his bags, someone needs to get out.
You are not in this world to be a ''door mat'', your life is better served with someone that is all about you.
Wasting your time, is a waste.

[grogie]

Well it's a shame having that kind of a relationship... I'd rather that my wife and I both enjoy each other and see us together long term. But to answer your question, you just have to leave. Unless he's in the mob or something, be done with it. Certainly don't just wait it out or for him approve you leaving. I had a friend who probably had more then one woman say this about him. I just encouraged them to run!

Good luck.

[jeepcache]

Originally Posted by ZonaJeep

lol






i am a promoter of personal responsibility. unless he is physically keeping you from leaving, you sticking around is YOUR choice...

[ZonaJeep]

Originally Posted by jeepcache

lol






i am a promoter of personal responsibility. unless he is physically keeping you from leaving, you sticking around is YOUR choice...

This. If he is physically threatening you, record all evidence and march your ass down to the police station en route to the courthouse.

[HWNorth]

Be subtle .. get a dog .. a big dog.. that bites .. and doesnt like him. Let the dog up on the bed with you at bedtime ... Your man will figure it out soon enough ...