I have a friend who writes a food/beer blog in town and she's recently gone on a "best wings in San Diego" hunt. Her and I don't necessarily agree on what makes a good wing, but she has a lot.
Check out her site at Says Granite | The other San Diego blog.
. There are also quite a few writeups about SDBW there too.
For me, I've had plenty of wings at the SDBC and I too enjoy them, but I have to order them "extra crispy" or they come out a bit slimy at times. I like a bit of crunch with my wings.
I've also had good wings at:
La Jolla Brew House
Dirtybirds (in PB and I think they're my favorite)
The Pub at the Alpine Brewery (these ones are really good too!)
The Tilted Kilt in OB (had them a LONG time ago and remember 2 things about them a) they were HUGE and b) they were good!)
Johnny B's in Downtown La Mesa is a guilty wing pleasure of mine too. Their wings are bagged, frozen and breaded which often times are 3 strikes against wings, but for some reason I REALLY like them. The batter adds the crunch I'm looking for and while they don't come sauced, they have some spice to them too.
I too would LOVE to hear some others' favorite places for wings in town