Francap: Ma'am, pack your bags, pack his bags, someone needs to get out.
You are not in this world to be a ''door mat'', your life is better served with someone that is all about you.
Wasting your time, is a waste.
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Craig
"We have never seen anything like this.? Mark 2:12
Well it's a shame having that kind of a relationship... I'd rather that my wife and I both enjoy each other and see us together long term. But to answer your question, you just have to leave. Unless he's in the mob or something, be done with it. Certainly don't just wait it out or for him approve you leaving. I had a friend who probably had more then one woman say this about him. I just encouraged them to run!
Be subtle .. get a dog .. a big dog.. that bites .. and doesnt like him. Let the dog up on the bed with you at bedtime ... Your man will figure it out soon enough ...